For so many years, you’ve been taught to hold it in and that therapy is a for a certain group of people. If you get therapy, your nuts. If you get therapy, you’re weak. If you get therapy, you’ve lost control. If you get therapy, you weren’t held enough as a child… and the myths go on.
But now, life is happening. Really happening. Mental wellness is on the rise and this therapy thing seems as though it's a considerable idea. So you begin to wonder... maybe it is for me. Maybe it isn’t.
Let’s face it… it’s inevitable. There is no escaping it. Conflict can show up nearly everywhere and without warning. Life is much easier and home feels more secure when you know how to resolve it in a way that doesn't end up in ongoing tension and leaves you both feeling stuck.
Some disagreements may seem trivial but too many of them resolved uneffectively can definitely have a BIG impact and disrupt your vibe.
Apply these 5 steps and make a conscious decision to handle conflict in your space with genuineness, skill and love.
Hey! So, I’d like to briefly answer a question that I get quite often from dating and committed couples…
“Should we go to counseling even if we are not married?”
Well, I'm here to tell you that it definitely has its GAINS and a variety of BENEFITS! For some reason many of us programmed to believe that couples counseling is only beneficial for married, seasonedcouples and that’s definitely not true.
We are not all the same (thank God!) and that’s what makes us creative and absolutely beautiful. But sometimes we doubt our individual beauty and loose sight of what makes us great. This exercise will help remind you of who you are and the confidence you possess.
But first, lets clarify a few essentials that may be helpful to you.